Had a heart to heart with a friend today over ramen. One of the topics we went over was that my friend was quite satisfied with being single, because she has freedom to do whatever she wants with nothing to hold her back.
Hearing that, I then reflected on my life thus far, and what she said was true. When I was with my ex, I didn't rly have a social life other than with her, which wasn't a very healthy relationship now that I think about it. But now that I'm single, I've been doing fun stuff everyday...
EX: This week so far...
Sunday = boardgame / Dark Table
Monday = badminton / ramen
Tuesday = picnic / outdoor movies
Wednesday = hiking / boardgames
Thursday = dancing kpop / badminton / ramen
Friday = dinner / nightmarket
Saturday = lunch with friend.
I'd never have this kind of life if I was still with my ex.
And another thing is that during badminton today, a friend of mine had to leave early to pick up his gf, even though he still wanted to play more. Thus proving my friend's point.
But the thing is, I can't be single forever. So when do I start not being single anymore?
Dat's the million dollar question.
But I guess I can be single for now...
And enjoy it.
I think?
Need's further consideration and processing lol.
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